LATE SHRI RAM MOHAN PRASAD
MEMOIR OF A FATHER-IN-LAW BY A DAUGHTER IN LAW
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By Sanjana Mohan
(Only your Daughter-in-law)
That day, I woke up early in the morning as I couldn't sleep well; your thoughts were jerking me all the time. I sat in the living room on the couch seeing the picture of yours with the Garland around. I was in so much pain and was wondering why you couldn’t be part of my future. Why you will not be in the journey of your grandchildren seeing them becoming what you dreamt for them.
Uncontrolled tears streaming down my face while my heartbeat starts to race. Asking God why did you take my “Dad” a second time away?
Yes I am writing about my Father-in-law Late Shri Ram Mohan Prasad who left us behind on 20th August 2020. This was unfortunate that even being in best of his health, he was encountered by Coronavirus. He was hale, hearty and knew how to embrace life; A man with a beautiful soul, full of human values and humane to the core.
Born in a learned Kayastha family in Khagauli, Madhubani, Bihar on October 20, 1946, Late Shri Ram Mohan Prasad’s father was DSP in Police. He had 7 siblings, 4 brothers, and 3 sisters. He did his schooling from Jila School, Muzaffarpur, Bihar, College from L.S College Muzaffarpur and completed his degree in BSc (Hons) Chemistry and later studied law. He joined Police services in 1969 and retired at the age of 58 yrs in Dec 2004. He got married to Mrs. Archana Prasad on 24 Feb 1973 at the age of 27 and later was blessed with 2 daughters and one son. During his team of service, he was posted to Muzaffarpur, Darbhanga, Motihari, Khagargiya, Samastipur, Sitamarhi, Hajipur, Arrah and Patna. Post-retirement he started practicing law and joined the high court.
It’s not common for a daughter-in-law writing about his father-in-law but I was the lucky one and I want to tell him he was the most understanding human being around. It’s just the last christmas we had such a lovely time, we saw so many places in Bihar and bonded like never before.
Never knew if that was going to be the last time i would see him. He was so happy as his Bahu, Son and Grand-children were enjoying places in Bihar, selecting the best christmas tree and ornaments to hang around. As a gift we got him sports shoes as he was a fitness freak. These memories shake me and it's really hard to believe- he is gone…..
I shared a beautiful relation as the only daughter-in-law who is from Punjabi culture but only with his help and guidance could understand a new culture. He was the one who introduced me to all the customs and traditions and also made me understand the importance of every relation new or old.
We created a relationship of mutual trust and understanding and yes it took a few year but then he could know me to the core. He wanted to see me doing well in my career and always wanted to see me dressed up the best.
He was a big foodie so he kept bringing all sorts of stuff of his choice and asked me to cook his best delicacies whenever we were around.
He had served in police for 36 years and was a storyteller as he had so much to share, the incidents he encountered and what all he faced in his life.
He was a learned person with knowledge of each and every field and looked up to the celebrities like Shri Amitabh Bachchan and nations hero like Lt Shri Lal Bahadur Shastri and Shri Narendra Modi. He started practicing law post his retirement as he was also a lawyer by profession.
All his life he wanted to be self sufficient and wanted to be best of himself. He was fond of lavish lifestyle along with being close to nature. He spends lots of time gardening and doing yoga. His day started early and ended watching news or methodological series.